I wasn’t that confident about posting about this issue, because “being used” is a feeling that everyone perceives differently.
It’s so easy to feel used. Work, relationships, family, friends etc. All potential sources.
But truth is, every situation is different and you certainly cannot compare them.
EVERYONE HAS HER/HIS OWN EXPERIENCES.
The key to that kind of situations is your POINT OF VIEW.
When you put yourself under any circumstances, you have to
- know WHY are you there?
- and most importantly, to know why the other person is in that situation with you.
IF YOU HAVE ALREADY THOUGHT OF THESE TWO POINTS,
THEN EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO IS YOUR CHOICE.
I MEAN THAT,
The worst scenario of “being used” is when that happens unconsciously.
The other person doesn’t even know that she/he is using you. You fill yourself with negative emotions. You don’t understand why. It’s the feeling that someone is underestimating you. It’s the result of the actions of the person who is using your mind and your soul.
WOMEN TEND TO LET OTHERS TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING IT.
BITTERSWEET EMOTIONS ARE ADDICTING AND SOMETIMES BEAUTIFUL.
Let go of the people who are using you. That’s the only way out. Let the feeling of “being used”, be your inspiration and not your defeat.
Be confident and do what you love